I’ve attended a few day seminars on this subject and spent a lot of time visualising the life I want, doing vision boards, and generally trying to move myself forwards in a positive way.
Some of my visioning has definitely come true, but other things I desperately want to work just run into road blocks and cul-de-sacs. I know I’m not alone in this and here’s what I’ve learned.
You need to be in your real truth. The Universe seems to know before you do if you’re visualising something you think you want rather than what you really want.
You must vision only for you. If your vision of the future includes changing the life of someone else – even if that’s for the better – you are in danger of overriding their free will and the Universe can’t allow it.
God is not a banker and cannot manifest money at the drop of a hat. If you want money you have to put yourself in the position where receiving that money becomes possible.
If you are uncomfortable with having money then you will be attracting it on one hand and rejecting it on the other. If you ask for money make sure that you are comfortable having that money.
You mustn’t rely on any other person to make things happen for you, it’s your responsibility to make things work.
If you decide that there’s only one way of something happening you may be focussing on the wrong thing. The Universe can bring about what you want in a number of surprising ways so visualise what you want and don’t tell the Universe how.
Dream big, don’t limit your dreams because secretly you believe it can’t happen.
Don’t focus on something specific as in “I have to have THAT particular house”. For all you know there’s a better one around the corner, so “this or better” should be your guiding mantra.
If the time isn’t right for your vision it won’t happen, but that doesn’t mean you give up. Keep getting out there working on it and it will be able to come in when the time is right. Enjoy the journey and wait.
Do a vision board, it really focusses you on what you really want as opposed to what you think you should want. If you don’t know what a vision board is send me a message and I’ll let you know.
Lastly, one of the things that’s been bugging me is the idea of “infinite possibilities” because to me a possibility is a future maybe. I’ve decided that I want infinite definites! It’s a subtlety but if you think in terms of possibilities they are only possibilities, change your thinking to encompass the idea that there are infinite definite good things that you can have.
I hope this helps a bit. Follow me on Facebook, visit my website, or keep an eye on The Do Something! Tour for more information.
Wishing you happy days and peaceful nights
Deb
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About the Author
I’m a writer, inspirational speaker, psychic medium and qualified life coach. I’ve been studying spiritual thinking for over 30 years now and in changing my beliefs I really have changed my life. I seek to help people change their view of who they are and how ordinary life issues ‘have’ to be handled. Obviously I take a Spiritual approach to life – which to me is entirely down-to-earth and based in the real world.
