Be Your Best ‘You’! by Chris Thompson

Many people hope to reach their self-actualization level in life before they bid this world goodbye. We admire the most successful people and tend to think that they achieved this in a day. But this is a big no! It takes patience and hard work. I will demonstrate eight (8) tips on how you can be that best person you have always dreamed of. 1. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. To improve yourself worth, always believe in yourself. If you don’t believe in what you can achieve, then nobody else will. Keep your dreams alive and real. Never be scared of dreaming big. Actually, if your dreams do not scare you, then they are too little. Keep working towards them. Remind yourself of what you want to achieve when an obstacle comes your way. Hold your head high and don’t listen to the negativity from the pessimists. Soon you will be glad that you believed in yourself. 2. Gain Inspiration From Other People. The world is not an island. We need each other to improve our well-being. It is crucial to have role models that we aspire to be like. From them, we borrow great lessons and inspirations. You do not have to copy necessarily everything they do. Borrow what seems helpful and leave what is not. Remain true to yourself and practice what seems important to you. Never despise people in life. There is always something to learn from each one of them. If you don’t agree with them, remain positive and correct them if you can. 3. Step Out of Your Comfort Zone. If you want to be that best person in your lifetime, then it’s time you add the term ‘Risks’ in your life dictionary. To make it in life you have to wake up from your comfort zone and take the life risks by the horns. Risking means taking up new challenges and being ready to conquer them. As you try new things, it is very crucial to tell yourself that you can. If you don’t believe that you will make it, then you will undoubtedly fail. 4. Say Goodbye To Procrastination. It is always said that time is money, and I agree with this phrase 100%. Procrastination is the grave in which opportunity is buried. This just explains why many end up losing a lifetime opportunity for not putting the time factor into consideration. Always learn to do what can be done today and never push it to a later date. If you have to do something, do it today. 5. Keep Practicing. Practice practice makes perfect. To be a better person and improve your skills practice is paramount. Nobody turns out perfect overnight. It is a process that requires practice. Keep redoing what you want to turn out great and with time you will be glad that you never gave up. 6. Discover Yourself. It is funny how many people do not know who they actually are. To be that best person you wish to be in life, it is important to discover who you really are. Be aware of your strengths and weaknesses. Dig deep to understand your hidden talents. Work on them and improve them daily. With time, you will be shocked how close you are to be the person you always wished to be. 7. Be POSITIVE! There is nothing that kills an individual fast than being a pessimist. Be positive in life and to everyone around you. This not only ensures that your heart remains clean but also improves your relationship with others. Just keep off all negativity and your life will shine all the way. 8. Learn To Let Go. Life has a thousand lessons to teach us. Sometimes you will be that bubbly being full of excitement while on other dull moments you will be so sad and hurt. To keep keeping on, always learn to let go. Try and forgive those who hurt you but never forget the lessons you learn from these moments. Never make your heart a bank of all the low moments and hatred. Let go and let your life go on. Many more lessons will be waiting for you. Just keep calm. Life is all about being positive, appreciate what you have, spread love to those around you and keep smiling. Your actualization level is just too close than you can imagine. Be thankful for every day and cherish the people you love all around you….Now, be the best person you can be! Stay happy!

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