Shyness is something that all of us are facing or have faced in our life. There are many public figures, who have gone through this situation but they have learned to manage it as well. Justin Timberlake, the great singer-songwriter, actor and record producer used to be a shy kid. He once said, “My mom likes to joke that until I was eight or nine I only knew what my sneakers looked like because I constantly walked around with my head down.” And look at him now, he is rocking the entire Hollywood with his electrifying performances. So, When Justin can do it, Why can’t you? To help you out, this blog contains simple tips that you can follow to overcome your shyness. Read on to find out.
1. Dress well
Yes, the dressing is the first thing that everyone notices. Dress well so that you look confident. It feels good when somebody compliments on us. The more you receive compliments, the more you start feeling confident. Don’t spare even the smallest attire. Concentrate on your underwear as well. There are a lot of men’s underwear styles in the industry. Try G-strings for men, that come in skimpy cuts. Imagine your girlfriend getting so impressed with your attire style that she drags you straightaway to the bedroom. She’ll get more excited about seeing you in a skimpy article as such. So, to get such excitements throughout the day, you need to dress well first.
2. Join a gym
Join a gym and start building your physique. The more you concentrate on yourself and your looks, the more confident and ravishing you look. Bodybuilding is the best medicine for depression, shyness or mental stress. Sweat out to bring the best of your machismo.
3. Talk a lot
You can question me here ” I’m already shy, why would I voluntarily talk to someone.”
Yes, I’m aware of that, but I’m asking you to start practicing by giving speeches, presentations or telling jokes and stories to people who are close to you. They can be your parents, your friends, or maybe your partner. Express what you did throughout the day to your parents. By doing so, gradually you get used to talking.
4. Always take the first step
This means engaging in small talks at every possible situation that you go throughout the day. Talk to strangers at bars, stores, sporting events, and the gym. Additionally, you can also approach the individuals if you are attracted romantically. Ask them out to dates as well. Life is short. Who cares if you get rejected? There are seven billion people on this planet. You’re not expected to liked by all of them. So don’t stay back, instead keep a step forward.
5. Keep a good Eye-contact
A data analysis by Quantified Impressions, a communication-analytics company based in Austin, Texas, proved that to make an emotional connection, the ideal amount of eye contact should be between 60% to 70%. Hence, try making an eye contact with the person you are talking to. They get an impression that you are listening to the conversation. Or else, your shyness can give them a feeling that you are not a good listener.
Above are some of the tips that you can follow to overcome the problem of being shy. Try them and do let us know your comments in the section below.