The 8 Laws Of Success

David Essel’s 8 Laws of Success

The “Law of Attraction” excites Americans with dreams coming true, like imagining “checks in the mail “, so that we become millionaires or, by having a vision board, we will somehow magically attract our soulmate. It taps into the emotional side of many people who love to live in this realm of life. But it’s not very realistic. It’s more “wishful thinking” than anything else. Let’s think for a moment. If a program offers huge results, with little to no effort, isn’t it time to stop buying into the insanity? Millions of people have used this technique, yet few will ever find success from “wishful thinking or fantastical affirmations.”

So, where do we go from here? …

 

In my #1 best selling book, “Positive thinking will never change your life…But this book will! The myth of positive thinking, the reality of success,” I share that affirmations are a great way to start the day…But it doesn’t matter how much emotion someone puts behind them, they are never going to radically change anyone’s life, unless it’s a miracle. Enough of the nonsense!

The following information can be used by anyone to create the life they desire.

#1. The ability to be successful lies within everyone. Yes, you can create an incredible income, lose the weight you desire, create deep loving relationships, release addictions and find a pathway to your creator. You have THE RIGHT to be successful, as much anyone else on this earth.

#2. Unless it’s a miracle, your thoughts are not powerful enough to create success on their own. Your thoughts will not create “checks in the mail”, weight loss, nor will they attract the perfect lover. We’ve been fed nonsense, if we believe these success fallacies. This is crucial to not only understand, but to accept as true.

# 3. The number one block to success, are the beliefs held deep within the subconscious mind. The role of the subconscious, is to keep you exactly where you are, which is commonly referred to as the “comfort zone of life.” Now, this doesn’t mean that the “comfort zone”, or these subconscious thoughts are healthy. Wherever you are lacking success, we can guarantee that your subconscious thoughts are sabotaging the success you desire.

# 4. A thought, regardless of how positive it is, cannot change a negative behavior long term. Unless it’s a miracle. You cannot “think, or affirm”, your way out of an addiction, financial hardship or a terrible relationship.

# 5. The only way to turn the subconscious mind around, from a saboteur to an ally, is to repetitively, on a daily basis, do the action steps you would rather not do. Success demands that we all invest more time, effort and money into our biggest goals. Over time, you can create a subconscious mindset that will continue to push you forward on your path of success.

# 6. In 37 years of work in the field of personal growth, we have found on average that an individual who is struggling deeply with addiction, weight, finances or their love life… Will have to put approximately 12 months, or 365 days of doing the work they would rather not do, in the area of life they are struggling with, in order to turn the subconscious mind around.

#7. Through action steps into the uncomfortable for a 12- month period time, the uncomfortable just becomes who you are. Where in the beginning it was a struggle to lose 100 pounds, at the end of 12 months of changing your diet and exercise habits, the new habits simply become who you are. An effortless part of your life. Success.

# 8. Affirmations, vision boards, and the like, will be important for only 20% of your success. Regardless of what you’ve been told, statements such as, “what you think about you bring about” are not true. Unless it’s a miracle. 80% of your success will come from your willingness to do the steps you would rather not do on a daily basis. This is the true “secret” of success.


David Essel, M.S. is the best selling author of 9 books, a counselor and master life coach and inspirational speaker whose work is endorsed by celebrities like Jenny McCarthy, Wayne Dyer, Kenny Loggins and Mark Victor Hansen.

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How to find what you want in life to be successful

There are a lot of people who don’t have issues with setting goals and achieving them, but they are so clueless as to what they want. You will want to make sure that you think about your life in the future. It is very hard to determine what you want when you have no idea what it is that you want. Some times it is just better for you to be able to take some time to explore yourself.

You will want to make sure that you think about some of the goals that you will want to have by the end of your demise. This will give you some sort of direction with your life. Would you like a family? Would you like to have a six-figure paycheck? What is it that you truly desire? You will have to do a lot of soul searching in order to find the truth.

First you will want to jot down lists of things that you feel are expected out of you. You will find that friends and family have an image that they need their friends and family to obtain. What are the pressures that your life is under? When you figure this out, you will then be able to figure out what it is that you do not want. Sometimes it is easy to define your goals when you start thinking about things that you wish you didn’t have. This will narrow down your palette of goals and you will be able to truly focus on what it is that you want.

Once you have your goals, you could go and talk to others about your goals before you start making any decisions. You may find that your friends and family will talk some sense into you when it comes to things like your life success. You will want to take your close friends and family’s opinions in mind before you may any rash decisions. You will want to makes rue that you feel strong about the choices that you make and the paths that you choose. You will also want to consider the fact that there is a lot of possibilities to explore when it comes to your future life and career.

If you would really like to make a difference in your life, then you will want to consider the fact that there many things to explore. You will want to give yourself the chance to make a difference in the way that you see life as well. When you take some time to explore the things that you are interested in you may end up finding some hidden knowledge or talent that you never knew you had. When you tap into your reserved pool of knowledge and talent you will be able to work on defining a mapped out route for future success. You will want to consider the fact that there are many options and you will have plenty of fun checking into all options of interest.

You will want to make sure that you give yourself the change to explore all of your options. You will want to make sure that you think about the things that mean the most to you right now and then learn how to build onto your current skills and interests so that you can build a good, solid future. You will find that this process will take a long time, but you will want to make sure that you consider any and all feelings that you have during the process.