This belief was taken on in your earliest years, as a survival mechanism in the unconscious mind to protect you from disappointment. As part of this strategy to protect yourself from further disappointment, there is a so-called ‘protective mechanism’ lying dormant in your unconscious mind which is shaping your behaviours and actions.
The problem with this strategy controlling your behaviours and thoughts is that it perpetuates unfulfilling situations, unfulfilling relationships and leaves you asking yourself how did I get here, or how did this life happen to me.
To explain how this protection strategy works – picture someone coming across a situation or opportunity in which this unconscious protection strategy deems the person to be unworthy of. That person will start to avoid, sabotage or notice a barrage of internalised rationalisations and excuses (generated from this fear) as to why they don’t want that positive life enhancing opportunity.
This unfortunately causes the person to unconsciously choose negative life choices and make bad career or relationship choices, leading to reduced self-esteem, confidence and over time; leading to depression.
So what is the solution to break free from this unconscious strategy? How can you stop these important decisions being made unconsciously on your behalf and remove all unconscious behaviours? The solution is to challenge the unconscious strategy and not replace – but completely remove – all unconscious trigger systems in which this belief is hooked into.
The natural, unquestioned tendency is to “believe” that these past unconscious memories of disappointment are cemented in the memory, because it happened to you and therefore fundamentally represents who you are i.e. someone who has low self-esteem, low self-worth, low self-confidence, a fear of expressing their real self, feelings of inadequacy and so on.
These feelings continue to live deep within the person making them vulnerable to being re-triggered by daily events and making poor life choices. As a result, the individual’s choices are focused on trying to avoid such triggers – hence activating the fear of ‘I am not worthy of having what I truly want and desire’.
As you can see, this severely limits and constrains the expression of the individual not to mention the course of their life. In many cases attempts are also made to quench or dissipate those inner negative feelings through some form of sedative such as drugs or alcohol. Although perceived as a temporary solution that allows them to endure otherwise untenable situations, the sedative approach only serves to enslave them to a life of addiction as a consequence of an unfavourable situation an individual seems enslaved in.
So, much like working with an outdated computer software with limited capabilities it only makes sense to scrap the old, i.e. the past, and begin afresh with an entirely new script. In the case of the “human hard drive”, i.e. the unconscious mind, it means erasing the memories of the so-called past and allowing for an entirely new and more expansive script to replace it. This results in life changing decisions whereby the individual chooses and creates from a place of free -will and not from the rejection concept.
In order to do this one must first bring into question the limiting belief that the “past cannot be changed”. How is this possible? Well, there is now a new coaching modality whereby through a simple question and answer process, it is able to access the unconscious scripts that anchor those past memories inside you and literally detach them or erase them completely as well as the consequential beliefs shaping every day decisions.
As this happens, the limiting negative memories simply begin to float away into space where they disintegrate and vanish from your consciousness forever. This allows a spontaneous and remarkable process to succeed it; the reintegration of what I have called your Life Force Energy back into your mind and body.
Life Force Energy is like a master computer programmer that has infinite knowledge and skill at reprogramming your mind. What’s more, it has only your best interests at heart and is there only to serve you.
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Felicity Muscat, former psychologist is now an international self-esteem, self-empowerment, and self-mastery life coach. Felicity is also a relationship and success coach, author of three best-selling books and Level 3 mind resonance coach.
No doubt, you’ve probably watched “The Secret” and wanted to know more about the law of attraction. There are plenty of teachers out there talking about the law of attraction, but the truth is that the law of attraction is just a name.
No body is really 100% sure of what the law of attraction really is or how it works. The basic premise is that like attracts like. You can imagine yourself as a magnet attracting all of the circumstances, people and things in your life. Your thoughts, visions, and feelings all work to attract certain things into your life. But the deeper you understand the law of attraction, the more you realize that you alone are responsible for everything in your life.
This is a hard pill to swallow, especially if you’ve been brought up to believe that something or someone outside of you is punishing or rewarding you for something. It’s also difficult to understand, when it seems that things just happen to you. But law of attraction goes beyond your conscious mind, it also includes deep subconscious thoughts, feelings and visions. In many cases, those deeper, hidden feelings and programs can override what you consciously think and feel. Your subconscious feelings tend to have stronger and deeper roots, while your conscious thoughts don’t.
You can imagine a tree with branches above the earth surface and thick roots beneath the surface. Understanding the law of attraction requires a life time of learning and experience. It’s simply not enough to watch a movie and then know it. But there are ways you can understand more about the law of attraction and use it to bring you more of what you want in life.
Here they are;
1. Read books on the law of attraction – there have been countless books written on it such as The Master Key System – By Charles Haanel, Seth Material – By Jane Roberts, Think & Grow Rich (The original edition) by Napoleon Hill, Psycho-Cybernetics, Law of Attraction – by Michael Losier, and Art of Allowing – by Esther Hicks. Some of these may not use the term law of attraction, but when reading the books you will come to understand the deeper level of what law of attraction actually means. (There are way too many books to list here, so this is only a preliminary list)
2. Exercise the law of attraction daily – even if you just found out about this today, put it into practice. Look for evidence of the things you want.
3. Be patient with yourself. The law of attraction is literally you. Don’t expect overnight changes from yourself. Be balanced while still being open minded to great possibilities.
At the core, law of attraction is love. Your subconscious does not judge, and it only obeys your repeated conscious commands or the things you consistently think, feel and see. The universe is the same way. It’s unconditional love. That deeper level of you doesn’t judge, and it only brings you what you have consistently focused on. So even if you keep saying that you don’t want something and you keep thinking about the things you do NOT want, guess what? You’re focusing on those things. And you’re bringing more of those things to yourself. The key is to shift your focus on the things you do want.